Kev Txawj Ntse Tib Neeg: Kev Ua Haujlwm w/ Chronic Fault Finders
- Lawv puas paub tias lawv dhau los ua qhov tsis zoo? …
- Siv lub hwj chim ntawm cov ntawv sau "dab tsi yog tias". …
- Yog tias nrhiav qhov txhaum txuas ntxiv mus, nug lawv tias "Qhov kev nrhiav qhov txhaum txhais li cas rau koj lossis ua rau koj?" Nws nug tsis accusing. …
- Sau lawv tus kheej hom.
Yuav ua li cas kov yeej kev nrhiav qhov txhaum?
- Saib koj qhov kev xav.
- Xa koj cov lus ntse.
- tham tham, taug kev.
- Sim nkag siab qhov kev xav thiab qhov xwm txheej uas lawv tab tom los.
- Muab qhov txiaj ntsig ntawm qhov tsis ntseeg.
- Kev xav yog qhov projection.
- Saib koj tus kheej thiab nrhiav qhov chaw ntawm koj tus kheej kev ntxub ntxaug.
- Tsim cov khoom muag ncaj ncees ntawm koj tus kheej.
txhais li cas yog tias ib tug neeg nrhiav tau txhaum?
Txoj lus. critical, siab phem, faultfinding, captious, carping, censorious mean inclined mus nrhiav thiab taw qhia faults thiab defects. qhov tseemceeb kuj tseem txhais tau hais tias kev rau siab pom ib yam kom meej meej thiab tiag tiag txhawm rau txiav txim ncaj ncees.
Phau Vajlugkub hais li cas txog cov neeg nrhiav kev txhaum?
Thiab txhua yam nqaij tawv yog hmoov av” (Yakhauj 2:20–21). Yog tias peb pom peb tus kheej zoo tshaj rau peb cov neeg zej zog, peb yuav tsis nco qab tias peb kuj tau “ua txhaum, thiab ua tsis raws li Vajtswv lub yeeb koob” (Loos 3:23). Hauv kev nrhiav kev ua txhaum rau lwm tus, peb yuav tsum lavua yuam kev tsos rau yam khoom.
Koj hu li cas tus neeg pom kev txhaum ntawm txhua tus?
Qee cov lus piv txwv ntawm faultfinding yog captious, carping, censorious, critical, thiab hypercritical. Txawm hais tias tag nrho cov lus no txhais tau tias "xav mus nrhiav thiab taw qhia qhov tsis raug thiab qhov tsis zoo," faultfinding implies ib tug querulous los yog meej temperament. tus kws tshuaj xyuas qhov tsis raug.
