Cov lus teb yooj yim thiab nyuaj tib lub sijhawm. Kev hlub hluas yuav kawg-xav nug tag nrho cov tsev kawm ntawv qib siab uas tseem yuav sib yuav ntau xyoo tom qab. Txawm hais tias nws muaj tseeb tias kev sib raug zoo nkauj muaj qhov nyuaj, kev hlub hluas muaj qee qhov nyuaj uas feem ntau tsis siv rau kev sib raug zoo rau cov laus.
Kev sib raug zoo hauv tsev kawm theem siab ntev npaum li cas?
Thaum muaj hnub nyoog 16, kev sib raug zoo nyob nruab nrab ntawm ob xyoos, sau Fogarty. Feem ntau cov kev sib raug zoo mus ntev tsis tshwm sim thaum ntxov, thiab thaum lub sij hawm hluas, koj yuav pom cov pab pawg sib tham, raws li Melanie Greenberg, Ph. D., hauv tsab xov xwm hu ua "Lub Neuroscience of Relationship Breakups," hauv Psychology Niaj hnub no.
Qhov feem pua ntawm kev sib raug zoo hauv tsev kawm theem siab yog dab tsi?
Tsawg dua 2 feem pua ntawm kev sib yuav yog rau cov tsev kawm ntawv theem siab, raws li Brandon Gaille. Qhia qhov tshwm sim tsis tshua muaj tshwm sim ntawm cov niam txiv tsev kawm theem siab ua tau ntev. Txawm hais tias qhov yuav ua rau cov menyuam yaus hauv tsev kawm ntawv theem siab yuav sib yuav yog me me, yog tias lawv yuav lawv txoj hauv kev muaj sia nyob txoj kev sib yuav yuav qis dua.
Puas kev sib raug zoo hauv tsev kawm theem siab feem ntau kav ntev?
Feem ntau, kev sib raug zoo hauv tsev kawm theem siab tsis kav ntev, vim tias tsuas yog ob feem pua ntawm kev sib yuav tshiab hauv North America tau cuam tshuam los ntawm "cov tsev kawm ntawv qib siab." Tab sis qhov tseeb hais tias cov kev sib raug zoo no tsis kav mus txog rau thaum kev sib yuav nyob rau hauv tsis muaj kev txiav tximtias lawv tsis qhia cov uas muaj txiaj ntsig cov lus qhia.
Kev hlub hluas puas kawg?
Qee zaum cov niam txiv uas poob rau hauv kev hlub hauv tsev kawm theem siab tsim kev sib raug zoo uas kav ntev. Ntau txoj kev sib raug zoo tsis kav ntev, txawm li cas los xij. Tab sis tsis yog vim cov hluas tsis muaj peev xwm sib sib zog nqus.
