Kev zam yuav siv ntau qhov kev txiav txim siab (rau lawv tus kheej thiab lwm tus) kom tsis txhob nthuav tawm cov ntsiab lus tseeb no. Lawv muaj kev tu siab tsawg dua thiab zoo siab thaum lawv tawm hauv lawv tus khub, tab sis yuav nrhiav lwm tus.
Yuav ua li cas ntshai Avoidants daws kev tawg?
Vim li no, cov neeg ntshai-voidant muaj kev sib xyaw ua ke rau kev sib cais: Thaum pib, lawv sim tsis xav txog lawv txoj kev xav thiab hloov ntshiv rau lwm txoj hauv kev, ua piv txwv lawv zoo kawg li.
Puas ntshai Avoidants xav kom koj caum lawv?
Yog tias koj tus khub zam, koj yuav muaj kev yaum kom "nrhiav" lawv. Thaum lawv rub tawm, koj sim ua kom ze rau lawv. Rau koj, qhov no zoo li kev daws teeb meem. Tab sis rau lawv, nws zoo li lawv tau raug smothered.
Puas zam kev nyiam raug caum?
Tus zam tus khub nyiam xav tias muaj kev ntxhov siab thaum raug caum ("lawv yuav tsis tso kuv nyob ib leeg, Vajtswv"), thiab tus khub ntxhov siab tshwm sim rau ntawm thrills ntawm kev caum ("Vim li cas lawv yuav tsis rov qab los rau kuv?
Yuav ua li cas thaum koj tawm ntawm kev zam?
Txoj kev zam txim yuav ntau dua xam txo qis, khov, av kom deb li deb tau los ntawm kev xav, txawm tias sib cais. Tej zaum lawv yuav nyob twj ywm nruj, stoic, thiab chim siab, xav kom lawv tus khub "tau txais" thiab xaus qhov kev tawm tsam, tso qhov khov.
