"Ib txhia neeg hloov, tab sis tag nrho, yog tias ib tug neeg dag koj ua ntej koj yuav sib yuav, tsov txaij tsis hloov lawv qhov chaw," nws hais txog compulsive. cov philanderers. "Lawv yuav tau txais txiaj ntsig zoo rau ob peb lub hlis, tab sis nws tsis yog qhov hloov pauv.
Tus txiv neej uas dag puas hloov tau?
Tus neeg dag tuaj yeem hloov nws txoj hauv kev? Yes, yog koj muab sijhawm rau lawv, cov kws kho mob hais tias. Peb txhua tus tau hnov ib yam, nkees nkees txog kev tsis ncaj ncees: "Ib zaug ib tug cheater, ib txwm ib tug cheater."
Tus poj niam puas tuaj yeem hloov pauv?
Nws yuav dag ib zaug lossis ntau zaus tab sis qhov kev cia siab rau kev hloov pauv yuav yog poor. Cov neeg zoo li no yuav pom tau tias nws yooj yim tshaj plaws kom tsuas yog ua kom zoo dua ntawm kev npog lawv txoj kev taug lossis tuaj yeem txav mus rau tus txij nkawm tshiab kom dim ntawm qhov tshwm sim. (Saib kuv qhov blog tshaj tawm "Yuav Qhia Li Cas Los Ntawm Tus Neeg Phem").
Tus neeg dag ib txwm dag dua?
Thaum muaj cov neeg dag ntxias tawm tsam (aka cov neeg uas muaj keeb kwm tsis sib xws ntawm kev dag thiab tsis hloov qhov tsim nyog kom tsis txhob muaj kev dag ntxias yav tom ntej), tsis yog txhua tus uas dag yuav rov dag dua yav tom ntej. Serial cheaters feem ntau yog narcissists lossis cov neeg uas tig los ntawm kev tsis ncaj ncees.
Txhua tus neeg dag rov qab?
Ib tsab ntawv qhia tias tsuas yog kwv yees li 22% ntawm cov neeg dag ua dua, thaum lwm tus pom tias 55% rov. Raws li kev tshawb fawb online ntawm ze li ntawm 21,000cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam uas tau lees tias muaj xwm txheej, 60% ntawm cov txiv neej thiab ib nrab ntawm cov poj niam tsis ncaj ncees ntau dua ib zaug.
