Lawv suav tias yog tsis quav ntsej, chim siab, tsis muaj tsav, muaj kev xav tsis zoo, thiab xav tias lawv tsis koom nrog. Hauv lwm lo lus, lawv raug kev txom nyem los ntawm "Middle Child Syndrome." Ib txoj kev tshawb fawb hauv University of Stanford tau qhia tias qhov nruab nrab yog suav tias yog qhov khib siab tshaj plaws, tsis tshua muaj siab tawv, thiab hais lus tsawg kawg ntawm txhua qhov kev yug me nyuam.
Puas yog tus menyuam nruab nrab ib txwm tsis quav ntsej?
Yes, the "Middle Child Syndrome" is very real. Cov me nyuam nruab nrab npau taws rau lawv txoj hmoo raws li tsis quav ntsej thiab feem ntau npau taws ntawm tag nrho cov niam txiv saib xyuas rau tus hlob thiab tus me nyuam ntawm tsev neeg, thiab xav tias luv luv. … Cov me nyuam nruab nrab yuav tsum sim me ntsis kom "tau hnov" los yog tau txais kev pom.
Puas yog me nyuam nruab nrab qhov nyuaj tshaj?
Nyob ib nrab me nyuam tawv. Koj yog ib tug kwv yau, tab sis kuj yog ib tug laus, thiab feem ntau koj nyuam qhuav dhau los ntawm ob qho tib si - tab sis tsis yog lub Yim Hli 12, aka Middle Child Day. Nws yog thaum kawg koj tig los ci thiab qhia qhov nws zoo li loj hlob - thiab nws tsis yog txhua yam phem! Ua ywj siab txij thaum yau.
Dab tsi yog qhov tsis zoo ntawm kev ua tus menyuam nruab nrab?
Qhov tsis zoo ntawm kev ua Me Nyuam Nruab Nrab:
- Lawv xav tias lawv raug tso tseg. …
- Lawv xav tias tsis pom qee zaum.
- Tus nus hlob tau qhov siab tshaj plaws vim nws loj heev thiab nws xav tau qhov ntawd koj tuaj yeem txi koj tus kheej rau tus kwv yau vim nwsyog ib tug me nyuam ntxim hlub.
Dab tsi yog tus mob nruab nrab menyuam yaus?
Puas yog Middle-Child Syndrome? Ntau tus kws tshaj lij uas kawm tus cwj pwm ntseeg tias koj tsev neeg txoj kev yug me nyuam ua lub luag haujlwm hauv koj txoj kev loj hlob. Lawv pom "middle-child syndrome" raws li lub tswv yim hais tias yog tias koj tsis yog tus menyuam hlob lossis tus yau tshaj, koj tau txais kev saib xyuas los ntawm koj niam koj txiv thiab xav tias "ntes hauv nruab nrab".
